Is it normal to feel pressure to look perfect online?
Absolutely. Many people experience the intense pressure to present an idealized version of themselves on social media. The curated feeds and constant comparison can make anyone feel like they need to meet an impossible standard, leading to significant stress and self-consciousness. It's a very common feeling in today's digital world.
Research from the Mental Health Foundation indicates that over half of young people feel inadequate due to social media comparisons, highlighting the widespread nature of appearance pressure online.
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Why do I feel like everyone else looks better online?▾
Social media often showcases highlights and carefully chosen images, creating a skewed perception. People tend to share their best moments and appearances, making it seem like everyone else has a flawless life and look, which isn't the full reality.
How can I reduce the stress of online appearance pressure?▾
Consider unfollowing accounts that make you feel inadequate, or limiting your time on platforms that contribute to this stress. Focusing on genuine connections and real-life experiences can also help shift your perspective away from digital perfection.
What is the 'online persona gap'?▾
The online persona gap refers to the difference between who you are in real life and the idealized version of yourself you present on social media. This gap can contribute to feelings of inauthenticity and pressure to maintain a perfect image.
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