Does everyone feel embarrassed buying toys for themselves as an adult?

Many adults experience a sense of shyness or apprehension when purchasing toys for personal enjoyment, especially if they perceive these items as typically for children. This feeling often stems from societal expectations about what constitutes 'adult' interests and hobbies. However, it's a very common internal struggle that people rarely discuss openly.

Research into adult leisure activities indicates that nearly 60% of adults engage in hobbies often associated with childhood, such as collecting, gaming, or creative play.

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Am I the only one who feels embarrassed buying toys for myself as an adult?

Am I the Only One?

Is it normal to feel embarrassed buying toys for yourself as an adult?

Is It Normal?

Is it weird to feel embarrassed buying toys for yourself as an adult?

Is It Weird?

Why do I feel embarrassed buying toys for myself as an adult?

Why Do I?

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It started a while back, probably in my mid-fifties, maybe a bit before, when I was still practicing law, corporate law mind you, quite complex stuff, mergers and acquisitions, antitrust cases, all… …

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” But then Saturday hits, and I’m at the community center, shuffling cards with Mrs. …

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My wife, bless her heart, she thinks I'm still doing the work stuff, burning the midnight oil or whatever fancy phrase she uses, but really I'm just in my office, which used to be the guest bedroom… …

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It’s more… something I can’t stop thinking about, something that just makes me so unbelievably angry every time it bubbles up. …

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is it normal for adults to buy toys for themselves?▾
Yes, it is quite normal. Many adults collect figures, build models, or enjoy playful items as a hobby or a way to relax and engage in creative expression. Interests don't simply disappear with age.
Why do adults feel ashamed of 'childish' hobbies?▾
Adults often feel ashamed due to cultural pressures that suggest certain interests are only appropriate for specific age groups. This can lead to internalizing the idea that enjoying 'childish' things is immature or strange, even when it brings genuine pleasure.
How can I overcome embarrassment when buying toys?▾
Focusing on the personal joy and satisfaction these items bring can help. Remembering that your hobbies are your own and don't require external approval can also reduce the feeling of embarrassment. Most people are more concerned with their own purchases than with yours.

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