Is it normal to feel embarrassed buying toys for yourself as an adult?

Many adults experience a sense of shyness or embarrassment when purchasing toys, especially if they perceive these items as typically for children. This feeling often stems from societal expectations about what adults "should" be interested in. However, engaging with toys can be a source of relaxation, creativity, and simple fun, regardless of age.

A 2022 survey on adult hobbies found that nearly 40% of adults reported engaging in activities often associated with childhood, such as collecting toys or playing video games, as a regular pastime.

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Am I the only one who feels embarrassed buying toys for myself as an adult?

Am I the Only One?

Does everyone feel embarrassed buying toys for themselves as an adult?

Does Everyone?

Is it weird to feel embarrassed buying toys for yourself as an adult?

Is It Weird?

Why do I feel embarrassed buying toys for myself as an adult?

Why Do I?

Real stories from the community

It started a while back, probably in my mid-fifties, maybe a bit before, when I was still practicing law, corporate law mind you, quite complex stuff, mergers and acquisitions, antitrust cases, all… …

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I don't know if this even counts, but I spend my nights playing video games with a bunch of kids — teenagers, mostly. …

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” But then Saturday hits, and I’m at the community center, shuffling cards with Mrs. …

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My wife, bless her heart, she thinks I'm still doing the work stuff, burning the midnight oil or whatever fancy phrase she uses, but really I'm just in my office, which used to be the guest bedroom… …

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It’s more… something I can’t stop thinking about, something that just makes me so unbelievably angry every time it bubbles up. …

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why do adults buy toys for themselves?▾
Adults buy toys for various reasons, including nostalgia for childhood items, collecting specific series, stress relief, or simply enjoying the play aspect. It can be a hobby, a way to relax, or a form of creative expression.
What kind of toys do adults typically buy?▾
Adults purchase a wide range of toys, from collectible action figures, model kits, and board games to puzzles, building blocks, and even remote-control vehicles. The type often depends on individual interests and what brings them joy.
Is it childish to still enjoy toys as an adult?▾
No, it's not childish to enjoy toys as an adult. Many people find that engaging with toys helps them unwind, tap into creativity, or simply experience a sense of lighthearted fun that can be beneficial in adult life.
How can I overcome embarrassment when buying toys?▾
Focusing on the personal joy the item brings and recognizing that many adults share similar interests can help. Remember that your purchases are for your own enjoyment, and what others think is less important than your happiness.

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