Am I the only one who buys expensive coffee and doesn't tell anyone?
Many people enjoy small, personal indulgences that they keep private. Whether it's a gourmet coffee, a special treat, or a quiet hobby, these moments are often about personal pleasure rather than sharing or showing off. It's a common way to enjoy something purely for yourself without external expectations.
Research into consumer behavior suggests that a significant portion of discretionary spending, estimated at over 30%, is allocated to items or experiences that are primarily for personal enjoyment rat
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why do people keep their small indulgences secret?▾
People often keep small indulgences secret to avoid judgment, manage perceptions, or simply to enjoy something purely for themselves without the need for explanation or justification to others.
Is it normal to have private spending habits?▾
Yes, it's very common for individuals to have private spending habits, especially for items that bring them personal joy but might not be understood or appreciated by everyone in their social circle.
What are common secret indulgences people have?▾
Beyond gourmet coffee, common secret indulgences can include buying specific books or collectibles, enjoying certain snacks, subscribing to niche services, or even having a quiet hobby that isn't widely shared.
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