Am I the only one who searches for someone to talk to in a busy street?

That feeling of being surrounded by people yet still wanting a connection is incredibly common. Many individuals find themselves in bustling environments, observing others, and wishing for a simple conversation or a moment of shared humanity. It's a natural human desire to seek connection, even amidst a crowd of strangers.

Research from the American Psychological Association suggests that a significant portion of adults report feeling lonely, even when surrounded by others, highlighting the widespread nature of this exp

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Does everyone secretly wish to find someone to talk to in a busy street?

Does Everyone?

<h1>Is it normal to search for someone to talk to in a busy street?</h1>

Is It Normal?

Is it weird to want to find someone to talk to on a busy street?

Is It Weird?

Why do I search for someone to talk to in a busy street?

Why Do I?

Real stories from the community

) We went down to the one by the old mill, the one with the big oak tree that’s probably older than this town itself, and it was quite busy, actually. …

loneliness in crowds

More like… a dull ache? …

loneliness in crowds

It’s not quite dissociation, not in the clinical sense, but more like a pervasive sense of unreality about my own actions. …

loneliness in crowds

I went to this thing last night, a networking deal, up on some rooftop bar with twinkle lights and all that jazz, felt kinda out of place just sipping my fizzy drink while everyone else was doing… …

loneliness in crowds

I remember standing there — that gymnasium, a cacophony of adolescent enthusiasm, the collective effervescence. …

loneliness in crowds

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do I feel lonely when surrounded by people?▾
Loneliness isn't always about being physically alone; it's often about a perceived lack of meaningful connection. You can be in a crowded place and still feel a deep sense of isolation if those around you don't feel approachable or engaged with you.
How can I make a connection with strangers in public?▾
Starting with a simple, genuine compliment or a question about something you notice can open a door. Observe your surroundings and find a shared point of interest, like a book someone is reading or an interesting piece of art nearby. A warm smile and open body language also help.
Is it normal to wish someone would talk to me on the street?▾
Absolutely. Humans are social creatures, and the desire for interaction is fundamental. Wishing for someone to initiate a conversation with you in a public setting is a very common expression of that innate need for connection and belonging.

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