Does everyone secretly wish to find someone to talk to in a busy street?

Many people experience a profound sense of isolation even when surrounded by others. This feeling often prompts a quiet desire for connection, a longing to share a moment or a thought with a stranger amidst the hustle. It's a common human experience to feel a disconnect between inner emotional states and the external environment.

Research from the University of California, San Diego, suggests that even brief, positive social interactions with strangers can significantly increase feelings of belonging and reduce perceived lonel

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Am I the only one who searches for someone to talk to in a busy street?

Am I the Only One?

<h1>Is it normal to search for someone to talk to in a busy street?</h1>

Is It Normal?

Is it weird to want to find someone to talk to on a busy street?

Is It Weird?

Why do I search for someone to talk to in a busy street?

Why Do I?

Real stories from the community

) We went down to the one by the old mill, the one with the big oak tree that’s probably older than this town itself, and it was quite busy, actually. …

loneliness in crowds

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loneliness in crowds

It’s not quite dissociation, not in the clinical sense, but more like a pervasive sense of unreality about my own actions. …

loneliness in crowds

I went to this thing last night, a networking deal, up on some rooftop bar with twinkle lights and all that jazz, felt kinda out of place just sipping my fizzy drink while everyone else was doing… …

loneliness in crowds

I remember standing there — that gymnasium, a cacophony of adolescent enthusiasm, the collective effervescence. …

loneliness in crowds

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do I feel lonely in crowded places?▾
Loneliness in crowds often stems from a lack of meaningful social connection, despite physical proximity. It can highlight a discrepancy between the expectation of social interaction and the reality of being unengaged with those around you.
Is it normal to want to talk to strangers?▾
Yes, it's quite normal to feel an impulse to connect with strangers. Brief, positive interactions with unfamiliar people can boost mood and foster a sense of community, even if fleeting.
How can I make new connections in a public setting?▾
Starting a conversation in a public setting can be as simple as making eye contact and offering a genuine compliment or asking an open-ended question related to the shared environment. Look for natural opportunities to engage.

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