Am I the only one who wonders if declining a job offer was a mistake?
Many people find themselves looking back at past career decisions, especially when a new opportunity comes along or current circumstances shift. It's a natural human tendency to re-evaluate choices, wondering about the 'what ifs.' This kind of reflection is part of how we learn and understand our preferences, even if it brings a moment of doubt.
Research from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology suggests that counterfactual thinking, or wondering about 'what ifs,' is a common cognitive process people engage in when reflecting on p
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How do I stop regretting a declined job offer?▾
Focus on the reasons you made the decision at the time. Consider what you gained by saying no, whether it was staying in your current role, pursuing another opportunity, or prioritizing personal commitments. Acknowledge that you made the best choice with the information you had then.
Is it normal to regret not taking a job?▾
Yes, it's very common. After making a significant decision like declining a job, it's easy to second-guess, especially if your current situation changes or a new job search isn't going as planned. Many people experience this kind of 'what if' thinking.
Should I reach out to a company after declining their offer?▾
Generally, it's best to move forward once an offer has been formally declined. Reaching out later can sometimes be perceived as unprofessional or indecisive. Focus your energy on finding new opportunities that align with your current goals.
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