Does everyone avoid talking about past sexual experiences?
Many people find it challenging to discuss their sexual history, and for various personal reasons, some choose not to share these details at all. This is a common choice, and it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you or your relationships. What feels right to share, and with whom, varies greatly from person to person.
Research indicates that a significant portion of individuals, over 60% in some surveys, report feeling hesitant to discuss their sexual history openly with new partners due to various concerns.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is it normal to feel ashamed of your sexual past?▾
Yes, it is common to experience feelings of shame about past sexual experiences, especially if they involved difficult or confusing situations. Many people carry these feelings, and they can impact how they approach intimacy.
What if my partner wants to know about my sexual history?▾
Partners often have different comfort levels with sharing sexual history. It's helpful to communicate openly about what you are and aren't comfortable discussing, and to understand each other's perspectives without pressure.
How can I feel less self-conscious about my sexual history?▾
Focusing on your present feelings and what you desire for future intimacy can help. Understanding that everyone has a unique past and that you are not defined by specific events can also be beneficial.
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