<h1>Is it weird to avoid making future plans because you don't know what you want?</h1>

Many people find themselves hesitant to commit to future plans when they're unsure about their desires or direction. This pause can be a natural response to a period of self-discovery, allowing space to explore different possibilities without the pressure of a fixed path. It often indicates a thoughtful approach to life, rather than a lack of purpose.

Research from the University of Michigan suggests that young adults often shift career aspirations multiple times before settling on a long-term path.

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<h1>Am I the only one who avoids making future plans because I don't know what I want?</h1>

Am I the Only One?

Does everyone avoid making future plans because they don't know what they want?

Does Everyone?

Is it normal to avoid making future plans because you don't know what you want?

Is It Normal?

Why do I avoid making future plans because I don't know what I want?

Why Do I?

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Frequently Asked Questions

What if I feel stuck and can't figure out what I want for the future?▾
Feeling stuck is a common experience when grappling with big life questions. Focusing on smaller, immediate steps or trying new activities can sometimes reveal hidden interests and preferences without needing a grand plan right away.
How can I explore what I want without committing to anything long-term?▾
Experimenting with short-term projects, volunteering, or taking introductory courses can be excellent ways to test out different fields or hobbies. This low-stakes exploration can provide valuable insights into what genuinely interests you.
Is it normal to change my mind about what I want multiple times?▾
Absolutely. It's very common for people's interests and goals to evolve over time, especially during different life stages. Changing your mind simply reflects new experiences and a developing understanding of yourself.

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