Is it weird to pretend not to enjoy sex with a partner sometimes?
It's more common than you might think for people to mask their true feelings during sex. Sometimes this comes from a place of insecurity, a desire to protect a partner's feelings, or even just a momentary distraction. It doesn't necessarily mean there's a serious problem, and often it's a fleeting reaction to complex emotions or circumstances.
Research published in the Journal of Sex Research indicates that a significant percentage of individuals, across various demographics, have reported faking orgasms or enjoyment during sexual encounter
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why would someone fake enjoyment during sex?▾
People might fake enjoyment for various reasons, including feeling pressured, wanting to avoid hurting a partner's feelings, feeling self-conscious, or even just being distracted and not wanting to stop the encounter.
What if I worry my partner is faking it?▾
If you're concerned your partner might be faking enjoyment, consider having an open and gentle conversation outside of the bedroom. Focus on creating an environment where both of you feel comfortable expressing desires and discomforts.
How can I be more honest about my sexual feelings?▾
Being more honest about sexual feelings often starts with small steps. You might try communicating non-verbally first, or discussing preferences and discomforts with your partner during non-sexual times to build trust and openness.
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