Is it weird to wish a sibling wasn't so successful?
It's a common, if uncomfortable, human experience to feel a pang of envy or even resentment when a sibling achieves significant success. These feelings don't diminish your love for them or your pride in their accomplishments. Instead, they often stem from our own aspirations and how we perceive our place in the world relative to those closest to us.
Research indicates that approximately 80% of adults report experiencing sibling rivalry or jealousy at some point in their lives, often linked to perceived differences in achievement or parental atten
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why do I feel jealous of my successful sibling?▾
Sibling jealousy often arises from comparisons we make, our own unmet desires, or a feeling that their success somehow overshadows our own. It's a natural reaction when someone close to us achieves something we aspire to.
How can I deal with sibling envy?▾
Focusing on your own achievements and goals, celebrating your sibling's success genuinely, and limiting comparisons can help. Shifting your perspective to view their success as inspiration rather than a threat can also be beneficial.
Is it normal to compare myself to my siblings?▾
Yes, it's very normal. Siblings are often our first and most constant point of comparison, shaping how we see ourselves and our capabilities from a young age. This tendency can persist throughout adulthood.
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