you know when someone just assumes stuff? like, assumes you have nothing to do? every single weekend, every weekend, it’s babysitting. my son, he just drops em off. like i’m some free service. i mean, i love my grandkids, obvs. but sometimes you just want... idk. to do YOUR thing. they don’t get it. i’m tired. but i can’t say no. i just… can’t. it's kinda shameful. like, why can't i just say no? it’s SO embarrassing.