Okay so I got this job offer… overseas… and it’s a BIG one, like big money. My husband says go for it, my kids are grown, but… I keep thinking about my mom. Who will take her to appointments? Her memory is… not great. Am I the ONLY one who feels like getting this much money, being so INDEPENDENT, means I'm a bad daughter? Like I’m choosing money over family? Anyone else… feel like a bad person for wanting to provide for themselves when… well. Just feels wrong somehow.