Home/Relationships & Family/Family obligation guilt/ThoughtIs it just me, or are we all just pretending that "family" isn't a slow-motion car crash of obligation?family obligation guiltpersonality maskingShare this thoughtCopy linkShare on XDownload imageDoes this resonate with you?Share Your OwnBrowse MoreOthers have felt this tooAm I the only one who feels this deep, weird grief mixed with… well, almost relief, now that mom's gone and I don't have to pretend anymore? …role reversal griefi swear to god i'm gonna lose my mind with this whole family thing. …sibling care resentmentEating dinner by himself in that quiet house, and I just… I can’t shake this almost visceral guilt, like I’m failing a core competency. …family obligation guiltAm I the only one who completely sabotages their own happiness because they’re obsessed with how things LOOK to other people or is it just me being a total disaster right now?people pleasingRelated ThemesEmpty Nest VoidHidden relationship doubtsParentificationParenting insecuritiesSecret resentment toward family