Am I the only one who avoids sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Many people consciously choose to hold back their true thoughts or feelings in social settings to prevent conflict or discomfort. This often stems from a desire for harmony and a wish to avoid potential disagreements. It's a common strategy for maintaining smooth interactions, even if it means presenting a less authentic version of oneself.

Research from the University of California, Berkeley, suggests that a significant portion of social interactions involve some degree of self-monitoring, where individuals adjust their behavior and exp

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Does everyone avoid sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Does Everyone?

Is it normal to avoid sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Is It Normal?

Is it weird to avoid sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Is It Weird?

Why do I avoid sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Why Do I?

Real stories from the community

It started when I was a young man, barely out of my teens, steeped in the rigid doctrines of our community. …

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Philosophy stuff. …

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Like, I’m the foreman on this construction site, right? …

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I guess I'm supposed to be like, a leader, super holy and stuff, but all I wanna do is draw these fucked up comics and read books my grandpa would probably call devil worship.

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I pretend to be so chill, like, always praying always helping out at church. …

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why do people hide their opinions in groups?▾
People often hide their opinions to prevent arguments, avoid being judged, or maintain a positive group dynamic. Sometimes it's about not wanting to stand out or create tension.
Is it bad to always agree with others?▾
Consistently agreeing with others can sometimes lead to feeling unheard or unexpressed. While agreeable behavior can be helpful, always suppressing your own viewpoint might leave you feeling overlooked or misunderstood.
How can I express myself without causing conflict?▾
You can express yourself by focusing on 'I' statements, sharing your perspective calmly, and being open to hearing other viewpoints. Choosing your moments and the right audience can also make a big difference.

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