Is it weird to avoid sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Many people choose to hold back their personal views in certain situations, especially when the potential for conflict outweighs the desire to express themselves. This isn't about being inauthentic, but often a practical approach to maintaining harmony in social or professional settings. Prioritizing a calm environment over expressing every thought is a common and understandable strategy.

Research from the University of California, Berkeley, suggests that people who prioritize social harmony often adapt their communication styles to reduce potential friction.

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Am I the only one who avoids sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Am I the Only One?

Does everyone avoid sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Does Everyone?

Is it normal to avoid sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Is It Normal?

Why do I avoid sharing personal opinions to keep the peace?

Why Do I?

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I guess I'm supposed to be like, a leader, super holy and stuff, but all I wanna do is draw these fucked up comics and read books my grandpa would probably call devil worship.

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I pretend to be so chill, like, always praying always helping out at church. …

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why do people avoid sharing their opinions?▾
People often avoid sharing strong opinions to prevent arguments, maintain professional decorum, or simply because they don't feel the conversation is the right forum for a deep discussion on certain topics. It's often a strategic choice.
Does holding back opinions make someone less authentic?▾
Not necessarily. Authenticity isn't about voicing every single thought. It's more about living in alignment with your values. Choosing to withhold an opinion in a specific context can be an authentic expression of valuing peace or respect for others.
What are the benefits of not sharing every opinion?▾
Benefits include reduced conflict, improved relationships, a more pleasant atmosphere in group settings, and the ability to listen and learn from others without immediate counter-argument. It can also help you conserve energy.

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