<h1>Am I the only one who feels fake adopting a more assertive persona at work?</h1>
Many professionals find themselves in situations where they feel the need to project a different image to succeed. This isn't about being inauthentic, but often about adapting your communication style to be more effective in a professional setting. It's a common strategy to ensure your contributions are heard and respected, rather than a genuine shift in your core personality.
A 2019 study published in the Journal of Applied Psychology found that individuals who effectively adapted their communication style to workplace demands reported higher job satisfaction and career ad
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Frequently Asked Questions
How can I be more assertive without feeling inauthentic?▾
Focus on specific behaviors like clear communication, making direct requests, and stating your opinions firmly, rather than trying to change your entire personality. Practice in low-stakes situations first.
What's the difference between being assertive and aggressive at work?▾
Assertiveness involves expressing your needs and opinions respectfully while considering others. Aggression disregards others' feelings and often involves demands or hostile communication.
Will being more assertive negatively impact my relationships with colleagues?▾
When done respectfully, assertiveness can actually improve professional relationships by fostering clarity and mutual understanding. It helps prevent misunderstandings and build trust.
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