<h1>Am I the only one who feels like everyone else has life figured out?</h1>
It's a very common human experience to look around and perceive others as having a clear path, while your own feels uncertain. This feeling often stems from comparing our internal world, with all its doubts and questions, to the curated external presentations of others. What we see on the surface rarely reflects the full complexity of someone else's situation, and many people share similar feelings of not quite having it all sorted out.
Research from the American Psychological Association suggests that social comparison is a significant contributor to feelings of inadequacy and dissatisfaction, particularly when individuals compare t
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Why do I compare my life to others so much?▾
Comparison often happens when we're trying to gauge our own progress or place in the world. It's natural to observe those around us, but modern life, especially with social media, can amplify these observations into intense self-evaluation. We often compare our 'behind-the-scenes' to someone else's 'highlight reel'.
How can I stop comparing myself to others?▾
Focusing on your own progress and setting personal goals can help shift your perspective. Limiting exposure to content that triggers comparison, practicing gratitude for what you have, and remembering that everyone faces their own challenges, even if they don't show it, are all helpful steps.
Is it normal to feel like I'm falling behind in life?▾
Yes, it's very normal. Many people experience periods where they feel they aren't where they 'should' be, often based on societal expectations or perceived timelines. Life paths are rarely linear, and everyone moves at their own pace, encountering different opportunities and obstacles.
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