Is it normal to resent a younger sibling for having an easier life?
Feeling resentment towards a younger sibling who seems to have an easier path is a very common experience. It often stems from observing differences in parental expectations, financial support, or perceived fewer struggles compared to your own experiences. These feelings don't diminish your love for your sibling, but rather reflect complex emotions about fairness and personal history within the family dynamic.
Research into sibling dynamics suggests that over 60% of adults report experiencing some form of sibling rivalry or jealousy at various points in their lives.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why do I feel jealous of my younger sibling's success?▾
Jealousy often arises when a younger sibling's achievements or perceived advantages highlight areas where you might feel less successful or supported. It's a natural reaction to comparing life paths within the family.
How can I stop comparing my life to my sibling's?▾
Focusing on your own accomplishments and unique life path can help. Actively celebrating your own progress and recognizing that everyone's circumstances are different can reduce the urge to compare.
What if my parents treat my younger sibling differently?▾
Perceived differences in parental treatment are a frequent source of sibling resentment. It's common for parenting styles to evolve, or for parents to be more lenient with later children, which can feel unfair to older siblings.
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