Is it weird to envy friends who took bigger career risks?

It's a very common human experience to compare your life choices with those of your friends, especially when you see them achieving success through paths different from your own. Feeling a pang of envy when others' bold career moves pay off isn't unusual; it often stems from reflecting on your own past decisions and considering 'what if' scenarios. This kind of introspection is a natural part of evaluating your own contentment and aspirations.

A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that approximately 75% of adults report experiencing regret about past decisions, with career choices being a frequently cit

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Does everyone envy friends who took bigger career risks?

Does Everyone?

Is it normal to envy friends who took bigger career risks and found success?

Is It Normal?

Why do I envy friends who took bigger career risks?

Why Do I?

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why do I feel regret about my career path now?▾
Feelings of regret often emerge when you observe others' successes, prompting a reevaluation of your own past decisions. It's not about what you did wrong, but rather a moment of reflection on different possibilities that might have been.
How can I stop comparing my career to others?▾
Focusing on your own achievements and defining success on your terms can help. Instead of external comparisons, consider what truly fulfills you in your work and personal life, and celebrate your unique path.
What if I regret not taking a big career risk?▾
Regret can be a powerful motivator. It might be an opportunity to identify areas where you desire change or to explore new, albeit smaller, calculated risks that align with your current goals and circumstances.

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