i just gotta say this somewhere you know cuz it's like a lot in my head lately and i just started like this new big job and it's going REALLY well my career is just like taking off right and my partner used to be super supportive but now it's like all this side eye about my long hours and i don't know if this is gonna work out anymore it's just exhausting and i'm so good at my job and like i love it but it feels like i have to choose or something and that's just unfair like i don't get it