Does everyone lie to spare someone's feelings?
Many people find themselves in situations where they tell a "white lie" to avoid upsetting a friend, family member, or colleague. This isn't an uncommon impulse, often stemming from a desire to maintain harmony or protect someone from perceived hurt. While some believe honesty is always the best policy, others weigh the potential emotional impact of complete candor.
A 2017 study published in the Journal of Basic and Applied Social Psychology indicated that over 60% of adults admit to telling a white lie at least once a day, often to avoid upsetting someone.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is it always wrong to lie to spare feelings?▾
Whether it's wrong depends on individual beliefs and the specific situation. Some prioritize truth above all, while others consider the intent and potential harm prevented by a well-meaning untruth.
What are the common reasons people lie to spare feelings?▾
People often lie to spare feelings to avoid conflict, prevent sadness or embarrassment, maintain peace, or protect someone they care about from an unpleasant truth.
When is it better to tell the truth, even if it hurts?▾
It's generally better to tell the truth when the lie could lead to greater harm, erode trust over time, or prevent someone from making an informed decision or addressing a real problem.
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