<h1>Is it normal to lie to spare someone's feelings?</h1>
Many people find themselves in situations where a small untruth seems kinder than a harsh truth. This isn't uncommon, and it often stems from a desire to protect others from unnecessary pain or discomfort. It speaks to a natural human impulse to maintain harmony and show compassion in social interactions.
Research into social dynamics suggests that a significant majority of individuals (over 80% in some surveys) admit to telling 'white lies' in social situations to avoid conflict or protect others' fee
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When is it okay to tell a white lie?▾
Most people consider it acceptable to tell a white lie when the truth would cause significant, avoidable distress or embarrassment, and the lie itself has no harmful consequences.
What's the difference between a white lie and a harmful lie?▾
A white lie is generally small, told with good intentions to protect feelings, and doesn't lead to negative outcomes. A harmful lie, however, is intended to deceive for personal gain or to cause harm, often with significant repercussions.
How do I decide if I should be honest or spare feelings?▾
Consider the impact of both honesty and dishonesty. If the truth is crucial for someone's well-being or safety, honesty is usually best. If the truth is purely hurtful and serves no constructive purpose, sparing feelings might be the more compassionate choice.
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