Does everyone wonder if they're making up attractions?
Many people question the authenticity of their feelings, especially when it comes to attraction. It's common to doubt whether your experiences are "real" or imagined, particularly if they differ from what you expect or what others describe. These thoughts are a natural part of understanding your own emotions and identity.
Research indicates that a significant percentage of individuals report experiencing periods of uncertainty or questioning regarding their sexual identity, with some studies suggesting upwards of 40% o
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Why do I feel like I'm faking attraction?▾
Feeling like you're faking attraction can stem from societal expectations, internal biases about what attraction 'should' feel like, or simply a period of self-discovery where your feelings are still forming and changing.
Is it normal to doubt my sexual orientation?▾
Yes, doubting your sexual orientation is a very common part of self-discovery. Many individuals explore and question their identity at various points in their lives, and this process can involve uncertainty about attractions.
How can I tell if my attractions are genuine?▾
Genuine attractions often manifest as a consistent desire for connection, intimacy, or partnership with another person, even if the intensity varies. Paying attention to how you feel consistently over time, rather than just in fleeting moments, can offer clarity.
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