Anyone else ever feel like you're standing in a kitchen but it’s not YOUR kitchen anymore, and someone you care about deeply makes this WONDERFUL thing, this specific thing you taught them, and you just… you ask if they’re the new cook, and it just hangs there, that question, and the smell of the food is everywhere and you just want to put your head down on the cool counter because you know you messed something up, something big, and now what. Am I the only one who suddenly has all this quiet and nowhere to put the old self, and then you say the wrong thing, always the wrong thing.