i’m tryna propose soon like ring bought everything but my head is just… broken. i’m in my fifties, still tryna finish this degree, i feel like such a chump. how can i ask her to marry me when i’m so all over the shop emotionally AND financially a wreck? like what if i just ruin her future, man? i dunno if i can give her what she deserves and it’s CRUSHING me. i’m so scared.