i just got off the phone with my dad again and it's always the same thing you know a call from two thousand miles away where he's all like oh your uncle gary bless his heart he's not doing so hot but you know what he did for your sister he emptied out his whole bank account the little bit of retirement cash he had saved up for himself just so she could get those tests done and everyone else what crickets absolute crickets and i'm here just staring at my own bank account thinking about how i should probably fly down there but then who pays for that all of it it's just a lot you know