Am I the only one who cancels plans to avoid meeting new people?
Many people find themselves in situations where they've committed to social plans, especially those involving new faces, only to feel a strong urge to back out. This experience is more common than you might think. It often stems from a mix of social anxiety, a preference for familiar company, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the prospect of new interactions. Understanding these feelings can help clarify why you might choose to cancel.
Research published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology indicates that a significant portion of the population reports experiencing social anxiety that impacts their willingness to enga
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Why do I dread meeting new people, even when I want to?▾
Dreading new social interactions can stem from various factors, including shyness, past negative experiences, or a general discomfort with unfamiliar social dynamics. It's a common internal conflict where the desire for connection clashes with apprehension about the unknown.
Is it normal to prefer staying home over social events?▾
Yes, it is entirely normal. Many individuals, regardless of their social preferences, sometimes prefer the comfort and predictability of their own space over attending social events. This doesn't necessarily indicate an aversion to people, but rather a need for personal downtime or a preference for certain types of social interaction.
What if canceling plans is negatively impacting my relationships?▾
If frequently canceling plans is causing strain in your existing relationships, it might be helpful to reflect on the underlying reasons for your cancellations. Open communication with those you're canceling on can also help manage expectations and maintain connections, even if you sometimes need to decline invitations.
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