okay so like this is probably stupid and like not even a real problem but I just gotta get it out, I swear I feel SO BAD because my mom's been staying with us since her fall, and she finally like really passed out for a nap today, and I just… I sighed, like this big huge sigh of RELIEF, and I know I love her and I want her to be okay but I was just so glad to have a minute to myself and now I feel like the WORST daughter, you know? and it’s like I should be happy she’s sleeping but I’m just happy I don’t have to like… *do* anything for a bit.